Naseeb
For parents

Their form is theirs.
This one is yours.

You answer separately, and in one sitting. You will never see their answers, and they will never see yours. That mutual blindness is deliberate — what this measures is the distance between what a family expects and what the person intends, and it can only measure that honestly if neither side is writing for the other.

You need their permission to begin. Nobody can fill in this form about a person without that person agreeing to it first — not a parent, not anyone. Either they send you a code, or you ask them here and they approve it.

They gave me a code

A sixteen-character code, like K7QM-D3XR-9TWA-6FNP. Each code belongs to one invited respondent and can be filed once.

I do not have a code

Give us their email address and we will ask them. Nothing is shared with you unless they agree — and if they would rather not, you simply hear nothing back.

Withdraw a completed response

Use the original code from your invitation. A withdrawal removes the entire family-form version from matching and erases its submitted answers; it does not reveal what anyone wrote.

Why the permission step exists. A form filled in about someone without their knowledge describes a different family than one filled in openly — and this register will not be the means of doing the first. Their consent is recorded, and they can withdraw it. If one respondent describes “Both parents, together,” it is recorded as that one respondent's household representation, not as proof that a second adult separately agreed. Active answers are held while the profile is in the register; rejected, replaced, and quarantined family answers are erased after the published retention period. Read the current privacy and retention notice.

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